- Alex Mathers
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- No one cares as much as you think.
No one cares as much as you think.
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No one really gives a s#it.
Your greatest hurdle right now is thinking that other people might judge you. It stops you showing up in any form.
I can't tell you how much of my life has been spent worrying about what others think of me.
It has often stopped me doing things I could have done had I not felt this.
But here's the secret: When people judge you, they are always judging themselves.
The need to put you down only comes from a place of insecurity.
Because that way, there is a perceived gap in 'status' that makes them feel elevated.
But status is an illusion.
Their focus is on themselves, never on you. No one with any true connection to themselves has a need to criticise harshly.
Understanding this sets you free. No one is really concerned about you.
Don't fall for it.
Don't feel bad about it.
It's a good thing. They are far, far more concerned about themselves.
They are distracted by themselves.
And you are here to make others feel better.
It was never about you anyway.
If you're worried about others…
Turn your attention away from yourself.
You will feel instant relief.
You are free this way. Live to express this truth.
No one has the power to diminish you or make you feel weird.
Only your thoughts have any semblance of that power, and those can be flicked off like a fly on your shoulder.
Play the game like you can't be touched.
Learn this about yourself. That it is possible.
If you'd like my help so you become far less affected by your thoughts and live a life of maximum confidence, you'll want my Untethered Mind course.
Alex