Fuzzy desires

It took me many years to finally see that wanting a hundred things wasn’t getting me much.

I think it’s perfectly healthy to want stuff.

It shows you’re excited about life and all the options out there.

And they are out there.

The problem for me came with what this did to my focus.

Multiple desires meant diverting attention to many visions, many thoughts.

And this diluted what I needed most to see any of my desires or wants through to completion:

Time, awareness and energy.

When I have fewer desires, be it building a website, making $15k per month, or selling my first fiction novel, I can channel more.

More time, more awareness and more energy.

Goals seem complicated because we don’t allocate enough of these three to our goal.

When I drill right down, the object of my desire gets more nurturing care.

Focus is, therefore, a loving act.

Love is the thing that gets you what you want.

As healthy as wanting many things is, you deny creation because creation depends on focus.

But here’s the opportunity:

You need to find courage by picking one thing.

What if you identified just one juicy objective to make happen before the year is out?

One thing.

And make it worth focusing on.

A big, slightly scary, but attainable goal.

If you had to choose, what would that be?

What would make the biggest dent in your life given what you are looking for right now?

Let the other things receive less attention - not because you’re lazy, or confused, or negligent.

But because you’re stepping up.

You’re committing to less.

That’s a bold thing to do that few do.

It’s time to throw out the junk and get focused.

What’s your one thing?

If you’d like to figure out what this is and how we can work together to make it happen for you with more accountability, I have a couple of transformation packages opening up this year where I work with you one-on-one.

What is your lack of focus costing you, and is it time to make a change?

Reply to this email letting me know what your one big goal could be and we can get the conversation going (just to talk, it doesn’t necessarily have to lead to a call).

Alex